In Southfield Michigan two children died in a car that their mother had left them in while she went and got her nails and hair done. Leavint them in a hot car left them gasping for air and eventually died.
A chief in the town said "There's no excuse for it. This woman's a criminal. I'm going for murder one." The story continues from their. She left the kids in the car for more than 3 hours and the inside temperature of the car was between 115 and 120 degrees. When she got to the car she noticed they were dead but drove around for a while so she could think of an excuse. When she got to the hospital she said that she had been obducted from the parking lot raped and when she got back her kids were still there. She later admitted that she had gone to get her hair curled and left her children in the car.
Why would she drive around with her dead children in the back trying to think of an excuse to explain why there are dead? She doesn't even seem to be conserned about her dead children, shes only concerned on how she is going to get herself out of this terrible situation. Driving around being normal while your children are in the back dead obviously shows she must have some mental issues.
The last thing that was said in the article was that the mother was being held in Oakland County Jail. If she gets off murder which to do so her best bet would be to please insanity, she should go to a hospital and after taht she is going to feel the real mourning of her son and daughter.
Monday, April 7, 2008
Teenage Pregnancy
Instead of getting an article for this I got statistics to write about. I decided to get teen sex and pregnancy statistics considering it is a widely spread issue across america.
Most very young teens have not had intercourse: 8 in 10 girls and 7 in 10 boys are sexually inexperienced at age 15. Most young people begin having sex in their mid-to-late teens, about 8 years before they marry; more than half of 17-year-olds have had intercourse.
The number of 17-year-olds that have sex is more than half of the ones that don't. That is appauling girls are not even considered adults then. More than half of these girls report that it is involuntary sex, they didn't even want to do it. Could this be shame or did these girls really not want the intercourse?
I bet the real reason for these girls saying it was involuntary was because they were ashamed of it. Though this might not be all of them most of them are probably lying. But even if they are lying doesn't mean they don't regret it. Which is very true. Some girls have sex at a young age because they think it will make the boy that they like love them more. But it's really all they want and all their going to do is brag to theirfriends about it and your going to be known as a slut because you had sex when you were 14 years old. Going through your younger life being tlaked about isn't fun and it really can wear down on a girl. Young girls who have sex to feel loves usually end up getting hurt and getting named a hoe. They try to get away from it so they hang out with girls like them and then grow up with them. The name will tear her up and let this young girl have a really rough youth.
Most very young teens have not had intercourse: 8 in 10 girls and 7 in 10 boys are sexually inexperienced at age 15. Most young people begin having sex in their mid-to-late teens, about 8 years before they marry; more than half of 17-year-olds have had intercourse.
The number of 17-year-olds that have sex is more than half of the ones that don't. That is appauling girls are not even considered adults then. More than half of these girls report that it is involuntary sex, they didn't even want to do it. Could this be shame or did these girls really not want the intercourse?
I bet the real reason for these girls saying it was involuntary was because they were ashamed of it. Though this might not be all of them most of them are probably lying. But even if they are lying doesn't mean they don't regret it. Which is very true. Some girls have sex at a young age because they think it will make the boy that they like love them more. But it's really all they want and all their going to do is brag to theirfriends about it and your going to be known as a slut because you had sex when you were 14 years old. Going through your younger life being tlaked about isn't fun and it really can wear down on a girl. Young girls who have sex to feel loves usually end up getting hurt and getting named a hoe. They try to get away from it so they hang out with girls like them and then grow up with them. The name will tear her up and let this young girl have a really rough youth.
Military Wives
Women of men at war are at home all alone for long periods of time. We are always hearing of people getting pregnant and father not seeing their children until they come home from war.
In this article it describes how there has been a big increase on births while milatary men are at war. It is probably enough stress on the wife of a husband at war because of the thought that he might not ever be comming home. Add on to that, that you having a child that might never see their father. It must be so hard to be alone and pregnant and constantly be worrying. It must feel like no other pain. This women said at every call " She jumps thinking its him," and everytime the door bell rings she "feels her heart hit the pit of her stomach."
In this article it describes how there has been a big increase on births while milatary men are at war. It is probably enough stress on the wife of a husband at war because of the thought that he might not ever be comming home. Add on to that, that you having a child that might never see their father. It must be so hard to be alone and pregnant and constantly be worrying. It must feel like no other pain. This women said at every call " She jumps thinking its him," and everytime the door bell rings she "feels her heart hit the pit of her stomach."
Sunday, April 6, 2008
How do I know if he is really the one for me?
Question
I've been with my boyfriend for five years and have lived with him for the past year. The problem started around three months ago when I began to wonder if he really is 'the one' for me.I know it sounds bizarre as I've dedicated the past five years to our relationship but these doubts (and the permanent knot in my stomach) are driving me crazy. I've tried to talk to him about our future and he thinks everything is going absolutely great between us - I don't want to hurt him but I need to know once and for all if my future lies with him.I've loved him so much for so long but I just don't know how I feel about him anymore and I don't know what to do next. I know I should tell him how I'm feeling, but I can't bear the thought of hurting him.What should I do? How will I cope without him?
Women also have problems not wanting to commit. It's hard to think about if your going to spend the rest of your life with someone. We have to deal with problems like these too. We don't want to hurt people expecially when they don't hurt us at all. But maybe we need to be sure if we want to spend the rest of our lives with someone or maybe they arn't sure if they want to spend the rest of your life with you even if they think they are.
Question
I've been with my boyfriend for five years and have lived with him for the past year. The problem started around three months ago when I began to wonder if he really is 'the one' for me.I know it sounds bizarre as I've dedicated the past five years to our relationship but these doubts (and the permanent knot in my stomach) are driving me crazy. I've tried to talk to him about our future and he thinks everything is going absolutely great between us - I don't want to hurt him but I need to know once and for all if my future lies with him.I've loved him so much for so long but I just don't know how I feel about him anymore and I don't know what to do next. I know I should tell him how I'm feeling, but I can't bear the thought of hurting him.What should I do? How will I cope without him?
Women also have problems not wanting to commit. It's hard to think about if your going to spend the rest of your life with someone. We have to deal with problems like these too. We don't want to hurt people expecially when they don't hurt us at all. But maybe we need to be sure if we want to spend the rest of our lives with someone or maybe they arn't sure if they want to spend the rest of your life with you even if they think they are.
A women has many different things to worry about. When one looses her friend it can be just as hard as anything. Expecially when it's something little and stupid. It doesn't matter loosing a friend is a very hard thing.
Some girls loose friends because of a small fight. But sometimes thats all that it takes. All it takes is for one little thing to happen and the both of you might be to stubborn to apologize or even call to work it out. Loosing friends isnt always easy either. Expecially when you spend all your time together.
Sometimes the reason why you split is over a boy. Your friend gets a boyfriend and starts to hang out with him and neglect you a bit. This happens to everyone. Right when someone finds a new boyfriend they tend to be with them more than you, everyone does it as well. You need to not disown them as your friend you need to be there for them so if he breaks up with her you can help her. Even as much as she neglected you she was just excited about her new realtionship.
Many times its because of separation. Many girl seperate when they go to college or a different highschool than the bestfriend from their middle school. They tend to loose touch and not talk as much. But this is hard on girls. Loosing a bestfriend no matter what way you miss her. It really wears down on you. Spending most of your life that you are going to remember with someone and then just leaving them is really hard.
Some girls loose friends because of a small fight. But sometimes thats all that it takes. All it takes is for one little thing to happen and the both of you might be to stubborn to apologize or even call to work it out. Loosing friends isnt always easy either. Expecially when you spend all your time together.
Sometimes the reason why you split is over a boy. Your friend gets a boyfriend and starts to hang out with him and neglect you a bit. This happens to everyone. Right when someone finds a new boyfriend they tend to be with them more than you, everyone does it as well. You need to not disown them as your friend you need to be there for them so if he breaks up with her you can help her. Even as much as she neglected you she was just excited about her new realtionship.
Many times its because of separation. Many girl seperate when they go to college or a different highschool than the bestfriend from their middle school. They tend to loose touch and not talk as much. But this is hard on girls. Loosing a bestfriend no matter what way you miss her. It really wears down on you. Spending most of your life that you are going to remember with someone and then just leaving them is really hard.
Single Mommy
This article is about a women who had a one night stand with a man and never spoke to him again. This is obviosuly stupid on her part but she still has to deal with it. She had the baby and the baby now has to struggle growing up without a father figure. It hurts for the mother to know her child will probably never know who their father really is. Not only that but she will always be without her real father.
Her mother has to live with the fact that she did that to herself and it changed her life forever but did nothing to this guy who did this to her. She said "It hurts to know he's out there living another life that we don't know about because I know he has no idea we even exist."
Her mother has to live with the fact that she did that to herself and it changed her life forever but did nothing to this guy who did this to her. She said "It hurts to know he's out there living another life that we don't know about because I know he has no idea we even exist."
Lynn's Prgnancy
This is a story about a girl names Lynn. She was a really young girl who got involved in a realtionship and quickly movedin with her new boyfriend. Everything was perfect in the beginning and then it started going down hill. He became very abusive. She left one night and stayed in a shelter she knew she was pregnant and she wanted to gte an abortion. But she didn't know about it. So, she found out what an abortion intailed and wanted to go along with it, and she made an appointment. She skipped the first one and made a second and also skipped that one. She soon started to experience heavy bleeding and really bad pain and she took herself to the ER and they told her she had just experienced a miscarriage. Her boyfreind ended up in jail which is what she hoped for.
This is a struggle that really is like no other. A boyfriend who beats you and you end up pregnant. You probably don't know what to do in a cituation like that. It's horrible. Why do men think they can treat women like that and how low can a man go by beating his girlfriend? Again it all goes back to how men think they're better than women and that women can't do anything to defend themselves. Women are so strong because of all the things they go through. Some women end up luckier than other by not having to deal with things like getting beating but that doesnt make the other things any better. Cheating is bad too.
Getting pregnant really young is a struggle in and of itself. Your life changes right when that happens. Now your life is deticated to trying to make an education for yourself while your pregnant so you can still get a college education and then a job to support this new baby. That stress is probably unimaginable. People try and say that its her fault for things like that. But sometimes she can't help it. No one has any idea what she is going through and it is definetly one of the hardest things to deal with.
This is a struggle that really is like no other. A boyfriend who beats you and you end up pregnant. You probably don't know what to do in a cituation like that. It's horrible. Why do men think they can treat women like that and how low can a man go by beating his girlfriend? Again it all goes back to how men think they're better than women and that women can't do anything to defend themselves. Women are so strong because of all the things they go through. Some women end up luckier than other by not having to deal with things like getting beating but that doesnt make the other things any better. Cheating is bad too.
Getting pregnant really young is a struggle in and of itself. Your life changes right when that happens. Now your life is deticated to trying to make an education for yourself while your pregnant so you can still get a college education and then a job to support this new baby. That stress is probably unimaginable. People try and say that its her fault for things like that. But sometimes she can't help it. No one has any idea what she is going through and it is definetly one of the hardest things to deal with.
Rapes
The number of rapes in the United States has decreased more than 85% since the 70's. Which is good. They say there is very good improvment and the crime has been receding from the American way of life. That still doesn't make the few that there are less punishable it makes it just as a serious as it always was.
The only problem with rape is that it is very underreported. But what do people expect? Women who get raped tend to be sheltered and nervous after the fact. They are nervous and just want to forget it. Sometimes they are even embarrassed and worry that it might their fault. Sometimes they worry that their families will hate them for the terrible thing that happened to them. Most if dont get murdered as well just run home and take a shower. They feel so dirty it doesn't go away no matter what. But women need to know that going to the police is the right thing to do. They can catch the jerk that did it to them.
The only problem with rape is that it is very underreported. But what do people expect? Women who get raped tend to be sheltered and nervous after the fact. They are nervous and just want to forget it. Sometimes they are even embarrassed and worry that it might their fault. Sometimes they worry that their families will hate them for the terrible thing that happened to them. Most if dont get murdered as well just run home and take a shower. They feel so dirty it doesn't go away no matter what. But women need to know that going to the police is the right thing to do. They can catch the jerk that did it to them.
Pregnant Women Killed and Set on Fire
The police say they know how this women was murdered but they won't say how becasue a suspect has not been put into custody. At her home on Easter Sunday, Yvette was murdered as were her two dogs and then her apartment was set on fire. She was pregnant and thats what most people thought was the worst part.
"The biggest tragedy is the baby, her being you know with a child and everything it's very, very upsetting, very disturbing actually," someone said.
This is true because of some jerk a nice lady died as was an unborn child. This child didn't even get to experiance life because of some guy taking advantage of a weak women and killing her. Women are going to fight the inferior battle until the end of time. It's never going to end. People see on the news everyday this guy murdering this guy or women and its normalty but when you hear of a women murdering a man its shocking. This all goes back to how women are viewed weak in comparrison to men.
"The biggest tragedy is the baby, her being you know with a child and everything it's very, very upsetting, very disturbing actually," someone said.
This is true because of some jerk a nice lady died as was an unborn child. This child didn't even get to experiance life because of some guy taking advantage of a weak women and killing her. Women are going to fight the inferior battle until the end of time. It's never going to end. People see on the news everyday this guy murdering this guy or women and its normalty but when you hear of a women murdering a man its shocking. This all goes back to how women are viewed weak in comparrison to men.
Alice Sebold
I have already written about Alice Sebold's book. But I'd like to comment on another one, Lucky. This book doesn't descibe her story of her rape, but anothers. It is powerful and sad. She describes as I can remember a girl getting raped and killed. The narrator is speaking the experiance as the girl from heaven trying to lead the way to the killer.
The struggle to get out of the rape is intense and obviously she doesn't come out on top. Her family strives to find the answer but they don't in the end.
The point of me writing about her is to stress that rape is horrible. Being a young girl herself, Alice wrote both of these books and expressed how a women just feels when being is a horrible cituation. She had to fight for her life. Imagine if the girl in the first story survived. She would have that painful memory for the rest of er life. That is something that it not easy to bounch back from. You hurt a lot more than just the girl what about her parents? Their precious little girl has been hurt and they don't even know how to react.
The struggle to get out of the rape is intense and obviously she doesn't come out on top. Her family strives to find the answer but they don't in the end.
The point of me writing about her is to stress that rape is horrible. Being a young girl herself, Alice wrote both of these books and expressed how a women just feels when being is a horrible cituation. She had to fight for her life. Imagine if the girl in the first story survived. She would have that painful memory for the rest of er life. That is something that it not easy to bounch back from. You hurt a lot more than just the girl what about her parents? Their precious little girl has been hurt and they don't even know how to react.
Letter of Broken Love
I just ended a six-month relationship because the person whom I believed to be the man of my dreams turned out to be a cheater. At this point in my life, I have given up all hope in men.It's unfortunate, but six out of the eight men that I've dated were unfaithful to me. I must admit that being a victim of unfaithfulness is very stressful and has caused me a lot of pain. Regrettably, I've come to the same conclusion that most women already know: men cheat because they're pigs Are men really just evil pigs controlled by their one-eyed monsters, or is there any hope in my ever finding a man who does not cheat?
This is a letter to a counceller asking for help on her latest relationship. You might thing women have littel things to worry about and their boyfriend cheating on them would be the last thing to worry over. Women have many different types on struggles. Men are one of them. From the early days of life women have been known has inferior to men which is not the case. The consitution has been changed to cater to womens equalties. Women can cheat on men yes but in this case a man has cheated on a women.
In her case she has been unfortunate not to find a faithful man but is this the end? No it is not. There are going to many times where women has to battle back to get through rough situations like this one, although it can be done. For the time being this will obviously hurt; mentaly just as physical pain does. A man beating a women or a man cheating hurts the same, but in two very different ways.
This is a letter to a counceller asking for help on her latest relationship. You might thing women have littel things to worry about and their boyfriend cheating on them would be the last thing to worry over. Women have many different types on struggles. Men are one of them. From the early days of life women have been known has inferior to men which is not the case. The consitution has been changed to cater to womens equalties. Women can cheat on men yes but in this case a man has cheated on a women.
In her case she has been unfortunate not to find a faithful man but is this the end? No it is not. There are going to many times where women has to battle back to get through rough situations like this one, although it can be done. For the time being this will obviously hurt; mentaly just as physical pain does. A man beating a women or a man cheating hurts the same, but in two very different ways.
In Saudi Arebia a young girl was beaten and shot by her father for talking to young men on Facebook. This young girl justwanted to get away from the everyday rules of her society. You cannot leave the house without a headscarf and cloak, women can't drive and they sure can't be with another unrealted man.
People say that she was probably trying to reveal pictures and behave badly online. Lots of Saudi women fight back online because they can't do it otherwise. Some go online to talk about human and women rights because they don't have any.
This article was much more than just the young girl who got beaten and shot dead by her father it just goes to show how Saudi women are not treated good at all. There was a comment on this article that I thought I'd include.
"How extreme. "Beaten and shot dead" is typical of a society where women are held to be just about less than nothing. For some reason, men in Saudi appear to be so fearful of women and their lives that they are paranoid about controlling them completely."- James Stuart, Chorley
This is true. Why should women be less than nothing when they should be more than everything? They must be scared the women will eventually over power them because women tend to be smarter.
People say that she was probably trying to reveal pictures and behave badly online. Lots of Saudi women fight back online because they can't do it otherwise. Some go online to talk about human and women rights because they don't have any.
This article was much more than just the young girl who got beaten and shot dead by her father it just goes to show how Saudi women are not treated good at all. There was a comment on this article that I thought I'd include.
"How extreme. "Beaten and shot dead" is typical of a society where women are held to be just about less than nothing. For some reason, men in Saudi appear to be so fearful of women and their lives that they are paranoid about controlling them completely."- James Stuart, Chorley
This is true. Why should women be less than nothing when they should be more than everything? They must be scared the women will eventually over power them because women tend to be smarter.
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