How do I know if he is really the one for me?
Question
I've been with my boyfriend for five years and have lived with him for the past year. The problem started around three months ago when I began to wonder if he really is 'the one' for me.I know it sounds bizarre as I've dedicated the past five years to our relationship but these doubts (and the permanent knot in my stomach) are driving me crazy. I've tried to talk to him about our future and he thinks everything is going absolutely great between us - I don't want to hurt him but I need to know once and for all if my future lies with him.I've loved him so much for so long but I just don't know how I feel about him anymore and I don't know what to do next. I know I should tell him how I'm feeling, but I can't bear the thought of hurting him.What should I do? How will I cope without him?

Women also have problems not wanting to commit. It's hard to think about if your going to spend the rest of your life with someone. We have to deal with problems like these too. We don't want to hurt people expecially when they don't hurt us at all. But maybe we need to be sure if we want to spend the rest of our lives with someone or maybe they arn't sure if they want to spend the rest of your life with you even if they think they are.