This article is about a women who had a one night stand with a man and never spoke to him again. This is obviosuly stupid on her part but she still has to deal with it. She had the baby and the baby now has to struggle growing up without a father figure. It hurts for the mother to know her child will probably never know who their father really is. Not only that but she will always be without her real father.
Her mother has to live with the fact that she did that to herself and it changed her life forever but did nothing to this guy who did this to her. She said "It hurts to know he's out there living another life that we don't know about because I know he has no idea we even exist."
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Lynn's Prgnancy
This is a story about a girl names Lynn. She was a really young girl who got involved in a realtionship and quickly movedin with her new boyfriend. Everything was perfect in the beginning and then it started going down hill. He became very abusive. She left one night and stayed in a shelter she knew she was pregnant and she wanted to gte an abortion. But she didn't know about it. So, she found out what an abortion intailed and wanted to go along with it, and she made an appointment. She skipped the first one and made a second and also skipped that one. She soon started to experience heavy bleeding and really bad pain and she took herself to the ER and they told her she had just experienced a miscarriage. Her boyfreind ended up in jail which is what she hoped for.
This is a struggle that really is like no other. A boyfriend who beats you and you end up pregnant. You probably don't know what to do in a cituation like that. It's horrible. Why do men think they can treat women like that and how low can a man go by beating his girlfriend? Again it all goes back to how men think they're better than women and that women can't do anything to defend themselves. Women are so strong because of all the things they go through. Some women end up luckier than other by not having to deal with things like getting beating but that doesnt make the other things any better. Cheating is bad too.
Getting pregnant really young is a struggle in and of itself. Your life changes right when that happens. Now your life is deticated to trying to make an education for yourself while your pregnant so you can still get a college education and then a job to support this new baby. That stress is probably unimaginable. People try and say that its her fault for things like that. But sometimes she can't help it. No one has any idea what she is going through and it is definetly one of the hardest things to deal with.
This is a struggle that really is like no other. A boyfriend who beats you and you end up pregnant. You probably don't know what to do in a cituation like that. It's horrible. Why do men think they can treat women like that and how low can a man go by beating his girlfriend? Again it all goes back to how men think they're better than women and that women can't do anything to defend themselves. Women are so strong because of all the things they go through. Some women end up luckier than other by not having to deal with things like getting beating but that doesnt make the other things any better. Cheating is bad too.
Getting pregnant really young is a struggle in and of itself. Your life changes right when that happens. Now your life is deticated to trying to make an education for yourself while your pregnant so you can still get a college education and then a job to support this new baby. That stress is probably unimaginable. People try and say that its her fault for things like that. But sometimes she can't help it. No one has any idea what she is going through and it is definetly one of the hardest things to deal with.
Rapes
The number of rapes in the United States has decreased more than 85% since the 70's. Which is good. They say there is very good improvment and the crime has been receding from the American way of life. That still doesn't make the few that there are less punishable it makes it just as a serious as it always was.
The only problem with rape is that it is very underreported. But what do people expect? Women who get raped tend to be sheltered and nervous after the fact. They are nervous and just want to forget it. Sometimes they are even embarrassed and worry that it might their fault. Sometimes they worry that their families will hate them for the terrible thing that happened to them. Most if dont get murdered as well just run home and take a shower. They feel so dirty it doesn't go away no matter what. But women need to know that going to the police is the right thing to do. They can catch the jerk that did it to them.
The only problem with rape is that it is very underreported. But what do people expect? Women who get raped tend to be sheltered and nervous after the fact. They are nervous and just want to forget it. Sometimes they are even embarrassed and worry that it might their fault. Sometimes they worry that their families will hate them for the terrible thing that happened to them. Most if dont get murdered as well just run home and take a shower. They feel so dirty it doesn't go away no matter what. But women need to know that going to the police is the right thing to do. They can catch the jerk that did it to them.
Pregnant Women Killed and Set on Fire
The police say they know how this women was murdered but they won't say how becasue a suspect has not been put into custody. At her home on Easter Sunday, Yvette was murdered as were her two dogs and then her apartment was set on fire. She was pregnant and thats what most people thought was the worst part.
"The biggest tragedy is the baby, her being you know with a child and everything it's very, very upsetting, very disturbing actually," someone said.
This is true because of some jerk a nice lady died as was an unborn child. This child didn't even get to experiance life because of some guy taking advantage of a weak women and killing her. Women are going to fight the inferior battle until the end of time. It's never going to end. People see on the news everyday this guy murdering this guy or women and its normalty but when you hear of a women murdering a man its shocking. This all goes back to how women are viewed weak in comparrison to men.
"The biggest tragedy is the baby, her being you know with a child and everything it's very, very upsetting, very disturbing actually," someone said.
This is true because of some jerk a nice lady died as was an unborn child. This child didn't even get to experiance life because of some guy taking advantage of a weak women and killing her. Women are going to fight the inferior battle until the end of time. It's never going to end. People see on the news everyday this guy murdering this guy or women and its normalty but when you hear of a women murdering a man its shocking. This all goes back to how women are viewed weak in comparrison to men.
Alice Sebold
I have already written about Alice Sebold's book. But I'd like to comment on another one, Lucky. This book doesn't descibe her story of her rape, but anothers. It is powerful and sad. She describes as I can remember a girl getting raped and killed. The narrator is speaking the experiance as the girl from heaven trying to lead the way to the killer.
The struggle to get out of the rape is intense and obviously she doesn't come out on top. Her family strives to find the answer but they don't in the end.
The point of me writing about her is to stress that rape is horrible. Being a young girl herself, Alice wrote both of these books and expressed how a women just feels when being is a horrible cituation. She had to fight for her life. Imagine if the girl in the first story survived. She would have that painful memory for the rest of er life. That is something that it not easy to bounch back from. You hurt a lot more than just the girl what about her parents? Their precious little girl has been hurt and they don't even know how to react.
The struggle to get out of the rape is intense and obviously she doesn't come out on top. Her family strives to find the answer but they don't in the end.
The point of me writing about her is to stress that rape is horrible. Being a young girl herself, Alice wrote both of these books and expressed how a women just feels when being is a horrible cituation. She had to fight for her life. Imagine if the girl in the first story survived. She would have that painful memory for the rest of er life. That is something that it not easy to bounch back from. You hurt a lot more than just the girl what about her parents? Their precious little girl has been hurt and they don't even know how to react.
Letter of Broken Love
I just ended a six-month relationship because the person whom I believed to be the man of my dreams turned out to be a cheater. At this point in my life, I have given up all hope in men.It's unfortunate, but six out of the eight men that I've dated were unfaithful to me. I must admit that being a victim of unfaithfulness is very stressful and has caused me a lot of pain. Regrettably, I've come to the same conclusion that most women already know: men cheat because they're pigs Are men really just evil pigs controlled by their one-eyed monsters, or is there any hope in my ever finding a man who does not cheat?
This is a letter to a counceller asking for help on her latest relationship. You might thing women have littel things to worry about and their boyfriend cheating on them would be the last thing to worry over. Women have many different types on struggles. Men are one of them. From the early days of life women have been known has inferior to men which is not the case. The consitution has been changed to cater to womens equalties. Women can cheat on men yes but in this case a man has cheated on a women.
In her case she has been unfortunate not to find a faithful man but is this the end? No it is not. There are going to many times where women has to battle back to get through rough situations like this one, although it can be done. For the time being this will obviously hurt; mentaly just as physical pain does. A man beating a women or a man cheating hurts the same, but in two very different ways.
This is a letter to a counceller asking for help on her latest relationship. You might thing women have littel things to worry about and their boyfriend cheating on them would be the last thing to worry over. Women have many different types on struggles. Men are one of them. From the early days of life women have been known has inferior to men which is not the case. The consitution has been changed to cater to womens equalties. Women can cheat on men yes but in this case a man has cheated on a women.
In her case she has been unfortunate not to find a faithful man but is this the end? No it is not. There are going to many times where women has to battle back to get through rough situations like this one, although it can be done. For the time being this will obviously hurt; mentaly just as physical pain does. A man beating a women or a man cheating hurts the same, but in two very different ways.
In Saudi Arebia a young girl was beaten and shot by her father for talking to young men on Facebook. This young girl justwanted to get away from the everyday rules of her society. You cannot leave the house without a headscarf and cloak, women can't drive and they sure can't be with another unrealted man.
People say that she was probably trying to reveal pictures and behave badly online. Lots of Saudi women fight back online because they can't do it otherwise. Some go online to talk about human and women rights because they don't have any.
This article was much more than just the young girl who got beaten and shot dead by her father it just goes to show how Saudi women are not treated good at all. There was a comment on this article that I thought I'd include.
"How extreme. "Beaten and shot dead" is typical of a society where women are held to be just about less than nothing. For some reason, men in Saudi appear to be so fearful of women and their lives that they are paranoid about controlling them completely."- James Stuart, Chorley
This is true. Why should women be less than nothing when they should be more than everything? They must be scared the women will eventually over power them because women tend to be smarter.
People say that she was probably trying to reveal pictures and behave badly online. Lots of Saudi women fight back online because they can't do it otherwise. Some go online to talk about human and women rights because they don't have any.
This article was much more than just the young girl who got beaten and shot dead by her father it just goes to show how Saudi women are not treated good at all. There was a comment on this article that I thought I'd include.
"How extreme. "Beaten and shot dead" is typical of a society where women are held to be just about less than nothing. For some reason, men in Saudi appear to be so fearful of women and their lives that they are paranoid about controlling them completely."- James Stuart, Chorley
This is true. Why should women be less than nothing when they should be more than everything? They must be scared the women will eventually over power them because women tend to be smarter.
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